Proclaim member and ELM co-chair speaking at Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago on October 10

Rev. Christensen

Proclaim member and ELM co-chair Rev. Erik Christensen will be  speaking  about ELM on Monday, October 10th at 11:30am, room 201 at the Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago.

Erik will be listening to stories from LGBTQ seminarians at LSTC and will talk about ELM’s ministry to support publicly identified LGBTQ rostered leaders and seminarians in the Lutheran church. This is important for allies to know about as well as for LGBTQ seminarians. Everyone is welcome!

For more details about the event visit this facebook page.

Thesis 96 is helping students and future leaders of the church get connected with inclusive ministries and practices in order to support students during seminary and when they get into the parish.

Diane Nelson DeLange, In Memoriam

Diane Nelson DeLange
Photo by Charlotte Fiorito.

Diane Nelson DeLange
July 7, 1944 – September 30, 2011

We give thanks for the life of Diane Nelson DeLange, who passed away on Friday, September 30, surrounded by her family.  Diane is the beloved spouse of the Rev. James DeLange, a founder of Lutheran Lesbian & Gay Ministries (a forerunner of Extraordinary Lutheran Ministries).  Diane’s kindness, hospitality and wit will be so deeply missed.

Diane’s funeral will be on Saturday, October 29 at 3:00 p.m. at St. Francis Lutheran Church, 152 Church Street, San Francisco, CA 94114 with interment of her ashes on the Memorial Terrace at St. Francis.  A reception will follow in the parish hall.  In lieu of flowers, gifts in her memory may be made to the St. Francis Lutheran Church Endowment Fund (c/o of St. Francis Lutheran Church, 152 Church Street, San Francisco, CA 94114).

As Jim wrote in an email sharing the news of Diane’s death, “Rest eternal grant her, O God, and let light perpetual shine upon her.”

This post was edited on 12/7/12 to correct an error.

Internship reflections from Proclaim member Julie Wright

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Julie Wright

Shortly after arriving at my internship, my grandfather died unexpectedly. In the midst of beginning a new and exciting internship experience, I witnessed the death of such a dear man – someone who had loved and nurtured me my whole life. As he took his final breath, I held his hand, stroked his hair, marked the cross of Christ upon his brow, and spoke his name. Five days later, as we laid him to rest, I had the great honor of preaching at his funeral and co-officiating at his service of burial. It was then, surrounded by my family and friends, that I began to realize the complexity of joy and sorrow inherent to this wondrous call.

For many years, I have prayed for an internship experience where I could bring my whole self to ministry – not just my sexual orientation, but also my love of God and people, my thirst for learning, a zest for life, and playful sense of humor. The beginning of my yearlong internship at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church (Minneapolis, Minnesota) has been marked by a very warm welcome. Here at Holy Trinity, my identity as a lesbian is an important, yet peripheral, part of my identity as a child of God. That’s not surprising, considering Holy Trinity has been a Reconciling In Christ congregation since 1985. Their support of me, as a future leader in the church, is indeed something I cherish.

Although I am only a month and a half into my internship, I already have gotten my feet wet with preaching, text study, committee meetings, and pastoral care.  At this point in the internship, I want the chance to really get to know the members of the congregation and surrounding community. But I know that building those kind of relationships takes time. It already seems to me that this internship year will go very fast. And I plan to enjoy every bit of it. One thing I have become acutely aware of is the need for self-care: sleep, exercise, good nutrition, laughter, and recreation are absolutely necessary if I am to be successful in life, but especially in ministry. This internship year will be a time of integration. I will be integrating my academic studies with practical contextual application, while combining an emerging pastoral identity with an authentic sense of self, and in the process, becoming fully immersed in the life of the congregation. I can think of no better way to spend the next year.

This spring I attended the 2011 Proclaim retreat, where I enjoyed participating in worship and networking with rostered leaders and seminarians who publicly identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender. It was enriching to be surrounded by queer people who love God and are following their own unique call in the world. Someday I hope that the full inclusion of LGBTQ clergy will be not just another ELCA policy, but a tangible reality. Until that day, I will look to ELM and Proclaim to be a strong advocate for me and my colleagues in ministry.

What can you do as an advocate for LGBTQ pastoral interns? We need more churches that are willing to be an internship site for LGBTQ interns. Having a positive internship experience will be key in developing future leaders. Another way I hope ELM/Proclaim will help is in the assignment process.  It is my hope that I will have the opportunity to interview for ministry positions for which I am qualified. If there are congregations that are on the fence concerning calling a LGBTQ pastor I hope that Proclaim will be an advocate for equal opportunity. All I ask is for support in living out this wondrous call to the best of my ability.

Julie Wright is a member of Proclaim and a student at United Theological Seminary in New Brighton, Minnesota. She is an endorsed candidate for ordained ministry through the ELCA, St. Paul Area Synod. 

 

ELM welcomes Randy Nelson onto Board of Directors

Randy NelsonWe welcome Randy Nelson onto ELM’s Board of Directors!  In addition to his role as a volunteer member of our Board, Randy will also chair the Candidacy Accompaniment Program.

ELM is committed to finding leadership volunteers who exhibit passion for and commitment to ELM and spiritual gifts for their specific roles with ELM.  In addition, we seek to recruit diverse leaders and work to constantly expand the diversity of our pool of volunteers and leaders.

Randy brings experience through his long-time role as Director for Contextual Education at Luther Seminary. He has demonstrated passion for ELM through his role as Convener of the Midwest Extraordinary Candidacy Panel.  Through this work, he was closely involved with supporting, mentoring and evaluating LGBTQ candidates for ministry.  He brings the perspective of an Ally to the LBTQ community. Randy is also involved in his home congregation in Minneapolis, MN and is the convener for two professional advisory groups for Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE) centers.

Raised in rural South Dakota, Nelson found encouragement and a sense of call while filling in as preacher at several congregations the summer before his senior year of high school. He received his Master of Divinity degree from the Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago (LSTC) in 1968 and remained in the Windy City to assist part-time at a north-side congregation, while working toward further degrees at the University of Chicago Divinity School and serving LSTC as a teacher, acting dean of students and assistant to the director of field education. In 1975, he received a call to Luther Seminary, where he served until his retirement.

We welcome Randy and give thanks for his investment of time and passion into this important work for ELM!

Dawn Roginski Installed in Sierra Pacific Synod

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Rev. Dawn Roginski

Rev. Dawn Roginski was installed on Sunday, August 28 as Associate Coordinator of the Coalition of Welcoming Congregations of the Bay Area.

Pastor Dawn was a member of the historic ELM Roster and is a member of Proclaim, the new professional community for publicly-identified LGBTQ Lutheran rostered leaders. Pastor Dawn previously served as pastor of St. Francis Lutheran Church in San Francisco.

We wish Dawn joy in her new ministry!

 

Save the Date! The 2012 Proclaim Retreat April 18-21, 2012

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We are confirmed! The retreat will be held at Stony Point Center, New York, April 18-21. Our keynote speaker is Episcopal Bishop Gene Robinson, who will join us for most of the retreat. The gathering will include professional development and community building. We expect it to be a fantastic weekend!

Registration opens in January, 2012. All Proclaim members will receive updates via email.

Gene Robinson

Bp. Robinson, the current bishop of the New England diocese of the Episcopalian church, is the first publicly-identified gay person to be elected bishop in a major Christian denomination.

Please save the date and invite friends and colleagues that would be interested.

Contact Rachael Johnson, operations@elm.org, with any questions.

Proclaim is the new professional community for publicly-identified LGBTQ Lutheran rostered leaders and seminarians. Proclaim is a program of Extraordinary Lutheran Ministries.

Stay tuned for more details about the retreat.

Testimonials from attendees of the 2011 Proclaim retreat: 

“This weekend has been a much needed oasis for me…This was the first time I have been able to be around others who publicly identify as LGBTQ and are ELCA rostered leaders and seminarians (and their families). I didn’t realize there were so many of us (and that wasn’t even everybody!). This weekend has rejuvenated me to go back to seminary with more people that I can find support from.”

Emily Ewing, 2011 Joel R. Workin Scholar, Seminarian at Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago

“We arrived late, during worship, and the sound of singing resonated throughout the building.  We could not help but sing too.  Tears of joy streamed down my face as I gathered with those whose journey had taken us this far. It was an amazing weekend of welcoming, affirming, and intentionality.”

Rev. David Coffman, South Carolina Synod of the ELCA

“We are building new community through Proclaim, strengthening our witness, empowering our voice, accompanying one another into God’s gracious future!”

Rev. Jeff R. Johnson, Sierra-Pacific Synod of the ELCA

2012 Proclaim Retreat, April 18-21: ¡Vamos Tod@s!

IMPORTANT INFO REGARDING THE SHUTTLE FROM NEWARK AIRPORT TO STONY POINT

1. When you land,  call the following number: 201-833-4444

2.  Go to Terminal B, at the Ground Level, outside at the Passenger Pickup Area 4 and 5. You may have a wait, but it will not be longer than two hours. The Stony Point Van will be driving continuously between Newark Airport and Stony Point, filled with jolly Proclaimers!

3. If you have any travel issues, text or call Amalia: 563-419-7238.

Safe travels!


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Attendees: Please plan your travel arrangements so you arrive to the center by Wednesday evening before dinner at 6pm and leave Saturday after 1pm.

The Proclaim retreat is a gathering of publicly identified LGBTQ rostered leaders and seminarians for a time of renewal, community building, and professional development. The 2012 retreat will be held at Stony Point Center, New York, April 18-21. Our keynote speaker is Episcopal Bishop Gene Robinson, who will join us for most of the retreat.

This year’s theme is ¡Vamos Tod@s! (We are all going!/We are on the move!).  The theme is tied to the hymn, “Let Us Go Now to the Banquet.” (ELW 523).

(The use of the “@” is a way that some people seek gender-neutrality in Spanish.)

This retreat is open to members of Proclaim, significant others, and children 3 and under. For information on joining Proclaim go here.

The retreat begins with dinner on Wednesday evening and concludes with lunch on Saturday.

Proclaim is funded in part by a grant from the E. Rhodes and Leona B. Carpenter Foundation.  An additional grant from the Advent Mission Fund from Advent Lutheran Church (New York, NY) provides support for expansive outreach efforts for our Proclaim and Candidacy Accompaniment programs and to increase ELM’s organizational commitment to inclusion.  Additional support for Proclaim and this retreat comes from individual donors and congregations.

More about the Event:

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This retreat will be the second gathering of ProclaimWe will gather together and embrace what it means to be publicly identified leaders as we care for ourselves, as we live in and amongst our communities, and as we serve as public witness to the Gospel.

The keynote speaker this year is Bishop Gene Robinson, the current bishop of the New England diocese of the Episcopalian church. Bp. Robinson is the first publicly identified gay person to be elected bishop in a major Christian denomination. His story is featured in the 2007 feature-length documentary, “For the Bible Tells Me So,” and his book In the Eye of the Storm: Swept to the Center by God (Seabury Books, New York) was released in 2008.

Program:

Here is a sample of sessions and discussion items for our time together:

  • What is the banquet that we are invited to?  What motivates/propels us forward?  What feeds our souls?
  • Discuss how LGBTQ leaders can shape and reshape church and community in the present and into the future.
  • Examine how LGBTQ leaders are a gift to the church.
  • Offer opportunities for LGBTQ leaders to hone and sharpen skills for ministry.
  • Create a vision of what this community and church might look like in 10 years–when we are all moving/going together.

Current Workshops

For more programming details about these presenters click here:  Speaker & Workshop leaders at the retreat

Keynote: The Right Reverend V. Gene Robinson, IX Bishop of New Hampshire

The Rev. Dr. R. Guy Erwin, professor at California Lutheran University, “Queering Lutheran Theology”

Emily Ewing, Joel R. Workin Scholar, seminary student at LSTC, “Nonviolent Peacemaking in a Culture of Violence”

Laura Kuntz, Joel R. Workin Scholar, seminary student at Trinity Lutheran Seminary, “Rituals for Renewal and Self-Care”

Ross Murray, Director of Religion, Faith & Values at the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD), “GLBTQ Voices of Faith in the Media”

The Rev. Heidi Neumark, pastor Trinity Lutheran Church, New York, New York, “Living Beloved Community”

Rick Ufford-Chase, co-director Stony Point Retreat Center, “Ministry on the Borders”

Friday Evening Entertainment: Peter Donnelly

Lodging:

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We will be staying at the  Stony Point Conference Center in New York.  Stony Point is just over an hour outside of New York City. Situated in the beautiful and historic Lower Hudson River Valley. Stony Point Conference Center offers delicious & locally sourced food, comfortable accommodations and stunning outdoor space.

Rooms will be shared with one other attendee. Please mark your roommate preference on your registration form. If no preference is indicated, we will assign you a roommate. If sharing a room presents an accessibility challenge for you, please contact operations@elm.org.

Each spacious room offers two single beds, two desks and a sink. Single-person bathrooms are located in the hallways. Each lodge offers a shared lounge and kitchenette with a microwave, sink and small refrigerator, as well as hot water for coffee and tea. Wireless internet access is available in most of the lounges, and in the main administrative building and dining hall. Dress for the retreat is casual.

Food

Meals will be nutritious and tasty. ELM seeks to extend a spirit of hospitality in all things, including food. Please note dietary restrictions on your registration form, so that we may meet your needs. The retreat begins with dinner Wednesday night, three meals a day Thursday and Friday, and breakfast & lunch on Saturday. Snacks will be provided throughout.

Costs:

$425/person

Includes: Double-occupancy room for three nights, meals and snacks, programming, and your 2012 membership fee for Proclaim.

Single rooms are available on a limited basis. Registration for single occupancy will be $495.

Partners/Spouses

Partners and spouses are invited and encouraged to attend this retreat. The retreat is designed to address the reality of living as publicly identified LGBTQ leaders. Partners and spouses are an integral part of this lived reality, experiencing the joys and challenges of this important ministry from their own unique perspectives. We want this perspective to be represented, and we want to support the vital and unique ministry of these partners/spouses. There may be moments where the conversation drifts into theology and church politics, likely reminiscent of those awkward gatherings in seminary. Be assured, there will be plenty of spouses/partners present to create a space for those who are not engaged by these kinds of conversations. Significant others will pay the full retreat cost of $375 for early-registration and $425 for regular registration.

Childcare:

Children 3 and under are welcome to attend at no charge. Please note there will not be childcare programming provided.

Travel:

The recommended airport is Newark. Please plan your travel arrangements so you arrive to the center by Wednesday evening before dinner at 6pm and leave Saturday after 1pm.

If you registered after February 16, you are responsible for your own transportation to and from Stony Point. Traveling by bus, plane or train?  Please refer to the Stony Point Center website for transportation options. 

Important Dates!

Registration Deadline is March 30, 2012.

If you have questions, please contact Rachael Johnson, operations@elm.org


Looking back; living forward

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ELCA Banner in Lobby at Churchwide Assembly

We’re back in Orlando. I was here in 2005 with scores of Goodsoil volunteers who came to witness as LGBTQ people and allies who were members of this church.  I was just coming back to the Lutheran church at that time, and newly involved in the movement for full inclusion of LGBTQ persons in the Lutheran church.

A lot has changed since 2005. As I walk down the hallways to the plenary sessions, I remember standing there with a Stoles Project stole.  I wore Rev. Jane Ralph’s stole the first day. I hadn’t met her before that. A year later, she would become part of the team that hired me as development director of Lutheran Lesbian & Gay Ministries (a forerunner of ELM).  The clearest memory I had of that experience was the way people wanted to look at anything but us when they walked down the hallway.  Then came the plenary where we moved as a group to witness silently on the floor of the assembly. It was hard for the Church to ignore us after that.

This assembly is similar in so many ways to the others I’ve attended since 2005. The layout, the speeches, the agendas, and even some of the speakers have become familiar. Here’s one major difference: For many years, so many of us suffered the pain of attending amazing worship services where preachers, bible passages, songs and litanies called for justice, and yet ignored LGBTQ  people. As LGBTQ people and our allies, we felt invisible and betrayed by the church we loved.

It is a gift this Churchwide Assembly to experience the ELCA as we live into the changes made in 2009.  In his opening sermon and address to the Assembly, Bp. Mark Hanson spoke out for the inclusion of LGBT people. Others in worship have voiced their support for people of diverse sexual orientations and gender identities. While many of us have experienced a welcome far beyond these initial steps for many years in our own congregations, it was a first for me at the Churchwide Assembly.

We are all living into the future together as members of the ELCA. As LGBTQ people, we know we have always been freed in Christ to serve. It is a joy to now experience that within the ELCA as well. I give thanks for the many members of our community who attended so many painful Churchwide assemblies and who worked so hard to bring us to today. You are with us in spirit. In looking back, we are living forward.

Your gift funds ministry: ELM Grants

Grace Lutheran SignSince 1995, Extraordinary Lutheran Ministries has awarded grants each year to directly support ministry by publicly-identified lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer Lutheran rostered leaders. ELM awarded $62,000 in grants to five ministries this year.  The grant recipients are selected by a volunteer team, led by Margaret Moreland.

Through this program, ELM donors support diverse ministries and congregations.  Current and past grants have gone to support parish ministry and a wide variety of specialized ministries and special projects. ELM donors have given away over $850,000 to ministry since the program began. ELM’s 2012 grant cycle is now open!

One of this year’s recipients is Grace Lutheran Church in Houston, TX. The photo above, reading “Grace Lutheran Loves Ya!” could be read as a thank you to ELM donors. Thanks to ELM donors, Grace has full-time pastor Lura Groen. But the message is to the people who Grace is now able to reach out to, thanks to you. You love Grace, and Grace loves you, and thanks to your support of ELM, they are sharing that love. Hallelujah!

The grants program is at the heart of ELM’s mission to expand ministry opportunities for LGBTQ rostered leaders.

Any member of Proclaim, ELM’s professional community for LGBTQ rostered leaders, may apply. You can read more about requirements for applying and past recipients by clicking here.

We thank all the ELM supporters throughout the years who have supported LGBTQ led ministry.

Ordination Trials in the Presbyterian Church (USA)

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Lisa Larges: Guest speaker at the Proclaim retreat

Today and this weekend the Presbyterian Church (USA) is hearing two cases on trial regarding ordination of GLBTQ congregations that pre-dated the changes to the church’s constitution. (On May 10th the Presbyterian Church (USA) voted that it will allow ordination partnered lesbian and gay Christians as elders, deacons and ministers in the church communities that wish for these candidates to become ordained. )

The case of Parnell, et al v. Presbytery of San Francisco ” is a case attempting to reverse the approval of the ordination of publicly lesbian Lisa Larges by San Francisco Presbytery.”  The other case is similar. Legal counsel for both presbyteries have filed motions to have these cases declared moot because of the intervening removal of the grounds for these cases. While neither Lisa nor the person involved in the other case is an ‘official’ party in these cases,their ordinations and their futures hang in the balance.

Our prayers are with Lisa Larges and our Presbyterian friends. Lisa was the guest speaker at the ELM/Proclaim retreat and has been awaiting ordination in the Presbyterian Church for 22 years. Lisa works for That All May Freely Serve, here is their blog.

Stay up to date on the trial by checking this website.